But history lesson aside, if your partner can't (or won't) say "Happy Valentine's Day" to you, especially if they know how important the day is to you, that's not just a red flag, but disrespectful. They're dismissing your needs so they can continue not acknowledging the day, maybe just to make some kind of statement. An entire day dedicated to declaring your love for someone? If you’re casually hooking up or in a new relationship, Valentine’s Day can be awkward. The reality is you may not be ready to write each other mushy cards, spend money on an expensive dinner, or say “I love you,” if you’re not at a full blown BF/GF status. “Acknowledging big and small holidays, such as Valentine’s Day, in the workplace can be a great way to boost morale and show appreciation,” states Dr. Anne Castley Burdzy, founder of Be Well It’s so disappointing not to receive a Valentine’s Day gift when you were expecting one! But ask yourself if it’s possible you got a giftand just didn’t realize it. For example, maybe you were hoping for a bouquet of roses before dinner, but for your partner, a nice meal was the gift. [2] Valentine’s Day celebrates all forms of love—romantic, familial, and platonic—not just romance. Its origins stem from ancient Roman festivals and Christian traditions honoring St. Valentine. Dear Eric: Valentine’s Day is approaching and members of my family and friends send me “Happy Valentine’s Day” texts, knowing that I am a widow. They claim that Valentine’s is for This Valentine’s Day, experts encourage you to think beyond one-on-one relationships and reflect on your community and world. Having a commitment to a cause or group builds mental resilience, they added. “We all seek to be understood and validated, especially during difficult times. If we continue to define domestic violence too narrowly, we will keep failing those who don’t fit the traditional mold of victimhood. Our laws, media, and support systems must catch up to reality. If Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love in all its forms, then it should also be a moment to acknowledge the ways love is weaponized. That. Instead of trying to cram all your love celebrations into one day, resolve to show love the rest of the year and take Valentine's Day off. Or better yet, turn it into a day of radical self-love. Here are the most common reasons Dr Tozer has heard as to why couples in crisis don't celebrate Valentine's Day. 1. Couples that feel the day is over-commercialised and resist acknowledging it. When asked by Dr Tozer why the couples she works with don't want to celebrate Valentine’s Day, they list off Hallmark cards, flowers etc. with distaste. At the end of the day, Valentine's Day stands as a far gentler event than the ancient Lupercalia. We see it through the lens of heart emojis and carefully curated dates. But the essence remains. We seek love, belonging, and renewal. We come together in big or small ways to affirm that life carries hope. My earliest memory of Valentine’s Day was in the fifth grade. I remember watching the “it” girls get showered with roses, candy, balloons, and teddy bears, hoping it would be me one day. I Valentine’s Day in Norway, known as Alle Hjerters Dag, is celebrated on February 14th with a focus on meaningful connections rather than extravagant gifts.Unlike the commercialized versions seen elsewhere, Norwegians prioritize shared experiences, nature, and inclusivity – making it a day to appreciate all relationships, not just romantic ones. If he's cancelling on you once he's found out it's Valentine's Day, he doesn't sound like much of a stand up guy. This is exactly what I don't get. I'm a guy that doesn't really "do" Valentine's Day, either, but I sure as hell wouldn't let it stop me from going out on a date that I already arranged. Serving pizza in a special shape is a simple way to acknowledge Valentine’s Day, no matter how seriously (or not) you take it. I wait all year long for Mama Cozzi’s heart-shaped pizza and make sure to buy it for a fun and easy weeknight dinner. The pizza is layered with a mix of cheeses (count ’em, five!), and I love to add heart-shaped Am I bitter? Is my spouse an ogre? No, and no. Here's why—and here are some ways to cope when your spouse doesn't do Valentine's Day: 1. Find out the why. It's also good to set boundaries/expectations - i.e "For me to consider things are "going good" is for the person I'm dating to at least acknowledge Valentines Day, and at least get me a card. Work travel is not an excuse, if you can manage to get to your appointments timely, you can manage to put an alert on your phone to call me for a holiday". Being alone isn’t the same as being lonely! Explore the benefits of being alone on Valentine’s Day and get 10 ideas for how to spend the holidays solo. Valentine’s Day has a way of making single people feel like they should be sobbing into a heart-shaped pizza while the couples they know frolic through a rom-com montage. These anti-Valentine’s Day events let you get creative with your heartbreak — all for a good cause Anyone who pays to name a roach will be able to watch a video of the feeding and get a “Valentine’s Day does not give anyone license to do that. A safe environment does not take a holiday. And that includes Valentine’s Day.” Don’t leave anyone out. “If [organizations] are going to acknowledge Valentine’s Day, make it inclusive,” Rodgers said.
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